LIFE BEFORE DEATH -- Bedside Manner
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Those who companion suffering daily, such as hospice nurses and volunteers, will surely appreciate this beautiful work. With 62 original art collages by Rashani Réa, five beautiful chapters by Kathy Douglas, and a foreword by Jean Watson, this exquisite book is a peaceful refuge for contemplation, inquiry, reflection and inspiration for those who traverse the joys and sorrows of nursing.
Kathy Douglas, RN, MPH-HA is a nationally recognized nurse leader, filmmaker and entrepreneur.
Rashani Réa is a prolific artist and musician, a creatrice of sanctuaries and a respected spiritual mentor.
“This is a beloved book and beyond a book. It is an evocative, poetic, ecstatic, and inspirited sacred, experiential calling. A calling to you--YES, YOU.”
— Jean Watson, PhD, RN, AHN-BC, FAAN, Living Legend (AAN)
“Those who companion suffering daily need to turn inward to metabolize what they have witnessed. This exquisite book, filled with beautiful images and poetic wise words, is the inspiration and support needed to grow a wise heart.”
— Frank Ostaseski, founder and director of the Metta Institute and author of The Five Invitations: Discovering What Death Can Teach Us About Living Fully
“In this unique time of the COVID-19 pandemic, this book should be considered a tribute to the tremendous courage being displayed by nurses around the world. There is much wisdom conveyed throughout by those who have been there serving others with such grace.”
— Greg Schneider President, HVA, co-author of The Changing Face of Hospice Volunteering in Hospice and Palliative Care
Comments
The beauty of being good hospice volunteers is in not thinking of anyone as "my kidney patient" or "my liver case." We go in expecting to deal with people in their wholeness state in need of enhancement, not in their "molecular state."
This wasn't mentioned in the article, but another similar area in which many doctors could improve is their condescending approach to patient care. Just as volunteers should approach patients with win-win personal growth expectations, so should doctors. Approaching them with a patronizing "I am your savior" attitude negates the mutual benefits they can both gain from the experience. This approach, which can be very intimidating for patients and caregivers, often results in a reluctance to communicate well and negatively impacts working in patients' best interests. Ultimately, we are all equal in the human family. Our knowledge, talents, degrees, etc. never make us superior to other people, never change the fact that we are all students and teachers.
Frances Shani Parker
Hospice and Nursing Homes Blog
The suggestions for good bedside manners are well known to hospice and palliative care volunteers.