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  • Debra,

    I can't seem to find your recent July 2012 discussion when I clicked the email link in your message to the group. The comment above is the last one I could find. I wrote it back in January 2012.

    It's hot in Detroit now, but I'm used to hot weather. I'm just enjoying it while I can because I know fall will be here soon. It's probably already in the stores. Hope Michigan has another great winter like the last one. 

    Hmm. That snow picture with "Happy New Year" motivates me to evaluate 2012. It's been many word descriptions so far. No telling what the rest of the year will be like!

    Best wishes to you and everyone,

    Frances

    P.S. Happy Rest of the Year!
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    Happy New Year, Everybody! 

    Frances

  • Happy New Year everyone!  May we all continue to learn in 2012 and hope that joy and peace will be a part of our lives.  Take care of yourself!

  • Hey guys, are any of you a par of MHVCA? If so, which region, and, did any of you attend the conference in Boyne this past Thurs/Fri?
  • Comment by Frances Shani Parker just now

    I'm doing fine. I just came from an older adult vaudeville-type show in Novi, Michigan. It was inspiring seeing seniors in their eighties and even late nineties dancing, singing, and displaying other talents. Too often, they are not given opportunities to receive this kind of recognition. The lady next to me said she was going to try to get a senior talent show at her church.

    By the way, if you have patients and caregivers who seem like they need support beyond what hospice provides, be sure to tell them to contact their local Area Agency on Aging. There are several in Michigan. They are government funded. Caregivers can find a wide variety of support services available to them through this agency. Area Agencies on Aging (AAA) are located in just about every state. They can be found by calling the National Eldercare Locater at 800-677-1116 or going online at www.eldercare.gov.


    Some of the services they provide are legal assistance, respite care, home health aide care, Meals on Wheels, transportation, and help with chores and repairs. Many of the services do not have an income requirement, so it’s best to check to see what’s available. Two helpful Internet resources for caregivers are AARP, which has extensive information, and the National Alliance for Caregiving, a non-profit coalition of national organizations focusing on issues of family caregiving.

     

     

     

  • How is everyone doing?
  • I get all my good advice from Greg!  He always puts things in perspective, as do you.  We are blessed to have you and Greg to support us in our journey to help others. Thank you.
  • Thanks, Debra. You just made my day!

    Responding the best you can and referring family to appropriate staff were good choices you made. You can also ask specifically if they want spiritual counseling from the hospice chaplain or their own minister. Even non-religious patients might consider this when they know death is near. I've never been asked that by a family member, but I don't see family members of my patients often. 

    Blessings,

    Frances

  • Frances, thanks always providing wonderful information to us.  I truly enjoy reading everything you post!
  • Hi, Paul,

     

    I posed a question the other day to Greg asking about his experiences when a family asked you, as a volunteer, to talk to their loved one about death.  Have you had this request from a family?  I refer the family to the hopsice social worker or appropriate person on staff at hospice, but willing to lend a listening ear.

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