Lessons For The Living

Posted by Stan Goldberg, Ph.D. on August 9, 2008 at 11:32am
Shambhala (under the Trumpeter imprint) will be publishing my book Lessons for The Living: Stories of Forgiveness, Gratitude, and Facing Fear-From People in Hospice, in June or July of 2009. It will be distributed by Random House. It covers my six years as a hospice volunteer at the Zen Hospice’s Guest House, George Mark Children’s House, Coming Home Hospice, Hospice By The Bay, Gift of Love Hospice, and Maitri Hospice—and how these experiences helped me deal with prostate cancer. In the Fall I will be continuing my volunteer service with Pathways. I’ve recorded an excerpt of the book for Dublit.com. You can access it by going to http://dublit.com/stories/memories-0 If this doesn’t work you can go to dublit.com and search the stories for “memories.” If you have the time, I’d love to hear your comments, You can either put them directly on the dublit site or email them to me. For those of you who were at the Guest House when it closed, the scene I describe will be painfully familiar. The only discrepancy is that we had three residents, not two. I hope everything else is accurate.

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